Evil
Traditions
In our
society we can see that a lot of bad things that happens. Alas! We did not do
anything but to make excuses or blaming each other. There are some bad things
that we do and feel no shame. Like bad traditions such as dowry. “Dowry is curse”. In our society it is like no offense.
Father of the girl ruins his whole life just to make dowry for his girl. Just
for the sake of that his daughter would be happy after marriage. Demands from
the boy side make him half dead man. He took loan or does anything for her
happiness. Family of the groom didn’t feel shame in it like they own it. They
make demands but never happy with that.
There are
many cases that we heard about or see that girls are beaten or get divorce just
because they did not bring demanded things in dowry. In actual that thing is
called goofiness and silliness. Even there is no any concept of dowry or any
kind tradition like that in Islam,
then what tradition we are following. These all bad traditions are came is us by
Hindustan and by Hinduism. We forgot our values our rules and norms and
followed the others. We have to find out again what are we and what’s our
teachings? There are some places where the tradition is boys save money for
their marriages which is a good thing besides this. I am pretty sure about
that’s people of my generation will make stop dowry and other bad traditions.
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ReplyDeleteWah Wah keep going
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your thoughts! Keep going 👍
ReplyDeleteAgreed.should make marriage easy for both families.
ReplyDeleteFrom girls sides also not be any demand
Like demand gold ring in "dodh pilae rasam"and like others.
Rich families by spending more set a pattern of society.And this causes difficult to follow for midlle class and lower class but they have to it.
I agreed with you these all are come from indian culture. not only rich everyone do these thing to make high reputation in family. so don,t bother them and, do what our religion said.
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